Philip Henry Gosse & Edmund Gosse (1857)
Edmund Gosse (1849-1928) was an accomplished and respected English poet,
author and critic. Among many well-received books, he wrote a biography of his
father, Philip Henry Gosse, and in 1907, aged fifty-eight, Edmund published a
memoir of his youth, Father & Son, focussing on his relationship
with his father. His family were very devout members of the Plymouth Brethren,
and Philip was a self-taught marine biologist. The primary interest in Father
& Son is the relationship between the religious father (who cannot
reconcile his fundamentalist faith with the new evolutionary theories of
Charles Darwin), and the son who questions and rejects his father’s religious beliefs.
The father is a looming presence over Gosse’s childhood and could even be
considered something of a tyrant in the account written by his son, but the
relationship is not without a degree of love.
In August 1971 The Folio
Society asked Robert Aickman to write an introduction to their reissue of Father
& Son. Aickman noted that this request was, no doubt, prompted by his
own autobiography, The Attempted Rescue (1966) being compared favourably
to Gosse’s classic memoir. Despite a tight deadline, Aickman submitted eight
typed sheets to the Folio Society in 1972.
Father & Son by Edmund Gosse, Folio Society, 1972
It is not known why the publishers did not use Aickman’s
introduction, which is interesting and entertaining. However, it is also somewhat
rambling, and in many respects says more about Aickman than about Gosse senior or junior. Aickman, for example, states
that the central theme of the book is ‘the right to be an individual’, which,
it can be argued, is only a small part of what Father & Son has to
offer the reader. Aickman also takes the opportunity to complain about his
usual bug-bears (‘the great modern trinity,
technocracy-overpopulation-egalitarianism’).
There are striking similarities between Father
& Son and Aickman’s own The Attempted Rescue, but there are also
important differences. Gosse’s father is a strong, charismatic personality and the
son is obviously in awe of him. Aickman described Philip Gosse as a ‘unique and
noble figure’, and suggested that his own father was similar. But whereas Philip
Gosse found himself grappling with seismic changes in attitudes in the second
half of the nineteenth century, William Arthur Aickman simply found himself
failing to get to grips with the demands made him, becoming more and more
eccentric as the result of either some undiagnosed personality disorder, or
just plain senility (while retaining, at least in the eyes of his son, his old charisma).
Thanks to Edmund Gosse, his
father is now viewed as a man who exemplified the important nineteenth-century
dilemma of religious faith in a modern world. Father & Son is also
seen as fascinating coming-of-age book in which Edmund learns to reject
everything that is most important to his father, and makes his own way in the
world. Unfortunately, William Aickman appears to readers to have been simply an
eccentric, perhaps to be pitied. And The
Attempted Rescue is not at all convincing as a coming-of-age book; Robert
seems to have lived a life in thrall to his father until 1941, when Robert was
twenty-seven and his father died. Rather than learning from his relationship
with his father, and moving forwards, Robert Aickman seems to have been forever
yearning for the idealised pre-marriage life that he believed his father to
have once lived.
A melodramatic Four Square paperback edition from 1959
Gosse wrote of his memoir, ‘This is not an autobiography’ and published the first edition anonymously. Aickman noted that Gosse left him with the ‘impression that every single word had been fought for to express the exact truth as the author felt it’. (My italics.) This acknowledges that Father & Son might not have been precisely factual (and did not need to be). It is interesting that Ann Thwaite’s 2002 biography of Philip Gosse suggests that Edmund’s father was a far more gentle, loving and thoughtful man than the one portrayed by his son. Far from being sequestered and melancholic, Edmund’s childhood appears to have been full of affection and warmth, and he was surrounded by many friends.
Robert Aickman with his mother and father, 1920s
Here, there is
a fascinating similarity between Edmund Gosse and Robert Aickman, for Aickman
attempted to persuade readers that his own childhood was lonely, with his
mother sick and his father domineering and eccentric. However, Aickman himself
admits in The Attempted Rescue that he had friends throughout his early
years, attended parties, was popular at school, and saw a great deal of his
wider family. Some members of his family thought his descriptions of them
highly inaccurate, and it is quite probable that Aickman would have excused any
exaggerations and embellishments as the truth as the author felt it. Such judicial management of information
would, of course, only serve to cement Aickman’s feelings of an affinity with Gosse,
whom he described as a Grand Old Man in the field of letters.
Father & Son is rightly considered a classic nineteenth-century memoir, and Aickman was
incorrect to suggest that his own The
Attempted Rescue was in a similar vein. Aickman wrote a quite different kind
of autobiography with its own, unique qualities. The one important similarity
between the two books may well be that both sons portrayed a father of whom
they were somewhat in awe, as rather tyrannical, but still with a measure of
love.
Robert Aickman: A Biography by R.B. Russell is available now.
Acknowledgements
With thanks to Heather
Smith, and Artellus, Ltd.
All photos, unless otherwise stated, are
copyright Estate of Robert Aickman/British Library/R.B. Russell, and are not to
be reproduced without permission and acknowledgement.